When i was pregnant, i was thinking of what's life gotta be after becoming a mum. After being a mum for about 4yrs, i am glad to share why it is great to be a mum and how to be a great mum. I found that i understand my mum so much better and i have seen my mum's unconditioned love.  People always say that life will never be the same after you have a child, you loses many things in life such as partying, late night suppers, travelling, spa treatments and many more. To certain extent, it is true but becoming a mum, you gain much more than you actually know.

10 Things you gain as a Mum

1. Abundance love from your kids. they will never stop loving you and you have an extra person who places you so special in their heart.

2. You understand life better. children are a reflection of our lives, they can actually teach us to see things we miss out as we buzz through the day. Just like when my daughter tells me that she wants to smell the flowers and to water the plants. It makes me realise that how we neglect nature are part of us, an important element that make up this world.

3. You gain super powers. Suddenly you become a super mum, one who is able to so many things at one time. You gets up early in the morning to prepare your kids, contribute to society by working, you come home and whip up dinner for the family, help them in their studies , tuck them into bed and then prepares your notes for the meeting tom.

4. Happiness. Every mum will tell you that their child always brighten the day. When you had a really lousy day, A smile or just hearing your child's voice simply melts the anger ,unhappiness  or tiredness away.

5. You had a free upgrade in status. Your status changes from a woman to a mum. One that is highly respected more than a CEO or a President.

6. You get to celebrate Mother's Day. An occasion that has been celebrated since ancient time.

7. You learn Patience. Children can really mould us better and its a great thing. Patience is a virtue.

8. Your life will be more colourful. One that is filled with lots of laughter, cries, hugs and kisses.

9. You make new friends at the park, in the playground, when you are shopping. You get lots of invitation to baby parties too.

10. You gain approval to go shopping officially. Stocking up on your kid's necessities, going to babies fair, getting a diaper bag, the latest stroller, toys fair and more. You find that daddy suddenly seems to have interest in shopping too.

Being a mum is not an easy road but it is a fulfilling and rewarding journey. For those who are mummies, i am sure you experienced these personally. Below is  Free Guide which helps you to a better mum. You are already a great mum but we can always improve further.

For those who are not a mum yet, download this guide and gain tips and be equipped to embrace motherhood. If you are a dad, read this book to understand a mum better.

If you know of more any more gains being a mum, feel free to share below in the comments.